People come into therapy usually because there’s something off—somehow there’s a disconnect between you and your partner. It could be that you’re continually finding yourself in gridlocked issues and don’t know how to move past them. Or, you feel misunderstood and don’t know why your partner just can’t get it. For others, there’s been an affair, and you’re wondering if you should continue your relationship, or, you’re wondering how you could ever work through what happened. Trust has been shattered, you’re feeling so many things, and you don’t see how you could get through this. You’ve tried to work through these things, and it’s not working anymore. I’ll help you delve into these issues to find out why they’re happening, and then we’ll explore how to change those patterns.